WHERE COUPLES LEARN TO LOVE FOR LIFE
FREE VIDEO TRAINING:
Turn Conflict with Your Partner Into Collaboration
ABOUT US
Annie Lalla & Eben Pagan here, we’re triumphantly in love and committed to staying together for the rest of our lives…no matter what. We have a young daughter “Love” named after her origin.
Our hearts hired one another to emancipate us from our wound patterns and unconsciousness. Every complaint from each other is a call for each other’s greatness and is heard as “I love you, I see you big, I believe in you and know you can do better than this.” We believe in the powerful wisdom of couples who collaborate on all decisions and stand for outcomes that work for both partners. Win-win or no deal.
OUR WORK
You’re not successful until you’ve fallen in love. Finding your life partner is life’s #1 most important quest. There’s only so far you can go alone. The quality of your collaboration determines the quality of your success.
Love is not a quick fix. It’s not easy and it takes deep work.
It doesn’t take a lot to be in love…it takes EVERYTHING.

WHO WE SERVE
We focus on working with couples who are “in for life” and who are self-actualizing their romantic relationship and partnership. Love Dojo is a safe collaborative community where you can work through challenges with support. Create the love you want, in order to create the world you want.
OUR PROGRAMS
We create scaffolding structures for you to build out the architecture of your relationship. We map difficult emotional terrain from our own in-the-trenches experience. We teach you how to express your frustrations, stand up for your needs, articulate your desires, show your affection, and share your difficult feelings with grace & grit. Our programs are offerings of online video, audio, books, private coaching, group classes, and interactive live workshop events.
WORK WITH US
EVENTS
Come listen and learn with us live. Check-in often to see where you can join us next.
COURSES
Participate in our programs where we’ve taken our most distilled wisdom and packaged it for your ease and understanding.
WHAT OUR CLIENTS ARE SAYING

Pure Love, Acceptance, and Action
“Annie Lalla is pure love, acceptance and action. That makes her a true coaching professional. Annie helps because she wants to, not because it’s her job. Annie is resilient, even when working with a “difficult” case, because her deepest love is unshakable – a foundation of god, truth and right living- from which her work, her relationships, everything emanates. A rare source of grounded love & sanity, in our stressful, diffracted world, I’m honored to know Annie and highly recommend her work. If you are considering using her services, don’t miss out on this opportunity to work with a brilliant, insightful, innovative professional.”
Dr. Neal M. Goldsmith
Psychotherapist & Author
http://www.nealgoldsmith.com/
Dr. Neal M. Goldsmith
Psychotherapist & Author
http://www.nealgoldsmith.com/

Deepest Heart’s Desires
“Annie is one of the Divine’s special love poets, insisting on love in all it’s forms with every inhale and exhale. Her radiant light and deep insight will illuminate your deepest heart’s desires.”
Regena Thomashauer
CEO, Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts
www.mamagenas.com
Regena Thomashauer
CEO, Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts
www.mamagenas.com

Annie Knows Every Inch of the Terrain
“Observing Annie in action with a client is to observe the fiery sword of Love itself. Carving new space in the heart of another, she reveals the kind of depth & truth that bonds lives together forever. To me, other couple’s therapists, counselors, authors of famous books, and coaches are all blind children doing their best to guide clients along emotionally treacherous pathways. Annie is one who has drawn the map, who lives in the land, and knows every inch of the terrain. She is a virtuoso of love.”